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Laurie and Frank Gray 


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Current/Recent Projects:

My story about my dad entitled "A Boilermaker with the Heart of a Hoosier" will be published in Undeniably Indiana, a book that celebrates Indiana's bicentennial scheduled for release August 22, 2016.




Michelle Ditton (Chief Nursing Officer of the Fort Wayne Sexual Assault Treatment Center) and I have written a book together that includes much of the materials we've presented in local and national trainings. We will publish the book through Socratic Parenting LLC and release it on Denim Day, April 22, 2015. Click on "ABC's of Sexual Assault" in the Navigation Bar to learn more.




Luminis Books published my nonfiction parenting book entitled A Simple Guide to Socratic Parenting in May 2014. The release coincided with Just Myrto and forms the basis for my "Parenting Facts and Fiction" standard presentation.


Luminis Books published my young adult novel entitled Just Myrto in May 2014. It earned a 2015 Moonbeam Award. Marrying Socrates launches Myrto, granddaughter of Aristides the Just, on a journey through Ancient Greek metaphysics to discover the wonder of being Just Myrto. Click on "Just Myrto" on the Navigation Bar to read a synopsis and what people are saying.


Luminis Books published my young adult novel entitled Maybe I Will in March 2013. A sexually assaulted teenager resists conformity, yet discovers freedom of self-expression through the physical forms in Taekwondo and the poetic form of Shakespeare's sonnets. The book has received a 2013 Moonbeam Award. Click on "Maybe I Will" on the Navigation Bar to read a synopsis and what people are saying.


My personal essay entitled "Tearing Down the Barn" is featured as Chapter 1 in Lost Lessons from Life on the Farm (Action Publishing Group/2011), Gregory Bloom editor. A Kindle edition of the book was just released, and you can download the complete first chapter, including a color picture of the barn, for FREE  as part of the FREE KINDLE SAMPLE. Just click on the word FREE to go there.

I returned to the classroom on a regular basis in the fall of 2011 as an adjunct professor teaching criminal justice courses at Indiana Tech in Fort Wayne. After teaching several day classes on the Fort Wayne campus and an evening class in Huntington, I'm teaching mostly online courses now.

My article entitled "Writing Your Own Affirmations" is featured in the July/August 2011 issue of Unity Magazine.

My article entitled "Stories Worth Banning" is featured in the current issue of Brigham Young University's biannual literary magazine Literature and Belief (Volume 20.2). It's a special edition devoted to young adult literature.    


Luminis Books ( published my first young adult novel Summer Sanctuary (May 2010) .  Cover photograph by Kenneth Harkenrider.  Publishing information available at  Midpoint Trade BooksSummer Sanctuary received a Moonbeam Gold Medal for excellence in Children's Literature and was a 2011 Indiana Best Book Finalist.  For more information click on "Summer Sanctuary" in the navigation bar.


I'm "Laurie, attorney, Indiana" on pp. 204-205 of MODERN-DAY Miracles by Louise L. Hay & Friends (Hay House/June 2010).

I served on the faculty at the 26th National Symposium on Child Abuse in Huntville, Alabama, March 22-25, 2010.  I co-presented a workshop entitled "Is It Insane to Use a S.A.N.E.?" with a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (S.A.N.E.).  I presented that and two more workshops in 2011, "How to BEAT a Bully" and "Prosecuting Child Sexual Abuse Cases." I taught the last two again in 2012 and hope to return in 2013 with two new workshops.  Click for more details

 I regulary write book reviews for the Christian Library Journal.  

I am a regular contributor to Unity of Fort Wayne Spiritual Center's newsletter.  

I am a consultant for a women's support group called Sophie's Cafe.  Visit

I presented a Token of ChangeTM workshop at Unity Christ Church in Fort Wayne, IN on April 26, 2009.  For more information on Token of ChangeTM visit

I served on the faculty at the 25th National Symposium on Child Abuse in Huntville, Alabama, March 23-26, 2009.  I co-presented a workshop entitled "Is It Insane to Use a S.A.N.E.?" with a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (S.A.N.E.). 

I have published multiple articles in a new ezine entitled Glory and Strength.  Visit  

I also have completed two picture books Stop, Drop and Roll and Three of Me and the inspirational gift book My Token of Change.  

On Sunday morning, February 11, 2007, I awoke inspired by the idea of designing a coin and affirmation poem that would help people let go of what they don't want and think only about what they do want in their lives.  For more information, visit   

In November 2006, I completed a correspondence course through the Institute of Children's Literature with published author Marcia Amidon Lusted as my instructor.

In addition to Socratic Parenting, I published an article entitled "When I Grow Up" in the Jan/Feb 2006 issue of Fort Wayne Woman. I also wrote a regular column "Laurie Gray: Inside the Law" for Fort Wayne Woman in 2006 responding to reader questions on the law.  Click on my "FW Woman" page tab above to read the article.



INTERIM CLININCAL / CBT COORDINATOR, Allen County Community Corrections, July 2019 - present 

BILINGUAL PROGRAMS FACILITATOR, Allen County Community Corrections, April - June, 2019.

STATEWIDE SEXUAL ASSAULT RESPONSE TEAM COORDINATOR, Indiana Coalition to End Sexual Assault (, December 2016 - June 2018.

PROFESSIONAL TRAINER, National Criminal Justice Training Center, Fox Valley Technical College, October 2016 - 2018.



BILINGUAL CHILD FORENSIC INTERVIEWER, Dr. Bill Lewis Center for Children, Fort Wayne, Indiana, 2010-2016.

ADJUNCT PROFESSOR, CRIMINAL JUSTICE, Indiana Institute of Technology (Indiana Tech), Fort Wayne, Indiana, 2011-2016. 

DEPUTY PROSECUTING ATTORNEY, Allen County, Indiana, Felony Sex Crimes Division, Child Advocacy Center, February 2000 - March 2002 and July 2018 - March 2019; Part-time in Felony OWI, Misdemeanor, Drug Court Program & Juvenile Sex Crimes, November 2003 - April 2010; PRIVATE PRACTICE TRIAL ATTORNEY, October 1993 - February 2002; HIGH SCHOOL SPANISH TEACHER, August 1986 - June 1990.               


INDIANA UNIVERSITY SCHOOL OF LAW, Bloomington, IN; J.D. May 1993. GOSHEN COLLEGE, Goshen, IN; B.A. April 1986. Spanish Secondary Education Major, English Education Minor. Junior Year Abroad, University of Barcelona, Spain; Study Service Term in Costa Rica.



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Haller & Colvin, P.C.